FatFalcon:3. This website used to have a lot of gay guys who were into Feederism. But they went to Grommr and Feabie. I hardly ever found my Mr Right in this community. Another thing to add is this website used to have an LGBT forum.
So yes a profile is meaningless if you can’t find your SO.
I am thankful that I found Bigger City for us gay men who are under appreciated.
This wasn't here when I started typing my response.
I'm glad you've found a space with like-minded people. I'm sorry to hear that FF doesn't feel as gay-friendly as it used to be to you.
That said, I want to point out something important.
Fantasy Feeder is not a dating site. It's a kink site. While you can find romantic partners on here, it isn't the sole focus of the site. There are a lot of people (including gay men) who are here for the kink community. Some either have a partner or are happy being single. Some are only here to find a playmate to be kinky with.
Since there are so many reasons you can be on FF outside of finding "The One, " many people put in their bios what they do and do not want. This is helpful to you, a gay man looking for Mr. Right, because it helps you weed through things. Imagine you hit up a cute guy only to find he's straight, married, too far away, or has a kink you very much do not like. If it's in his profile, you could have avoided wasting time by never contacting him. Or, imagine you find someone you click with because you read their profile and it's nothing but green lights.
To be honest, I'm struggling to come up with a reason not to read a profile.